Posted on by Casey Jones
– When we think of vulnerability and how we use it in our lives, it is an ever evolving source and force. I know as I live day to day, moment to moment, there are times where I am being vulnerable and moving energy that changes me and times when I am not. A more intimate relationship with my self and another takes courage and risk taking but the rewards can be life changing. There are times where I am in preservation mode and operating with what I think is my authentic self and then a moment will present itself where I have to make a choice to reveal my true feelings or choose fear to protect me from getting hurt.
The truth is, we grow immensely from the self discovery process in being vulnerable.
The question shouldn’t be, “will I get what I want from the situation by being vulnerable.” The question should be, “if I expose my true feelings, will I become more intimate with myself.” The answer to that question is , yes. Until we get aligned with our true feelings by expressing them and bring them to light, they are just a fleeting thought or awareness that cannot manifest love or harmony in our experience. If we do not choose to be vulnerable in the moment the ego will control our behavior and keep us locked into a certain pattern.
By exposing the deeper layers of our feelings and moving through the fear, we will become more in tune with our true nature as we are evolving. I know in my experience, as I mature, confront my fear and take the risk in being vulnerable, I find that deeper more meaningful relationships form with myself and others. We can help others feel and take the cue to be more vulnerable when we expose our true feelings with bravery. Results will vary for each individual depending on the situation and honesty in expressing our true feelings but all in all, we our self will benefit from being vulnerable.
You do have to be aware of who we choose to be vulnerable with, as some may use it to manipulate you.
We must speak to this subject as we live in a world with so many imbalanced people. We need to pay attention to the cues of whether the people you are being vulnerable with join you in being vulnerable or view it as a weakness and take advantage of you. As you practice being vulnerable, you will begin to know the difference by the return energy. We have Judgment and discernment that we need to use when we decide who to be vulnerable with.
Some of these people we need to be aware of are on the red list of who not to be vulnerable with like Narcissist, Psychopaths, people who play with dark energy, witches and other forces that are not human who inhabit people. Again, you can tell by the return energy not the words, feel, use your feeling ability. By analyzing your true nature these types of beings will find the controls in your emotions and use you as a battery source as well as a dumping ground for there emotional garbage that is not based in vulnerability but in hatred of self.
When we are vulnerable with our self and the right people, we change the world, for our self and the other.
Intimacy that is formed out of vulnerability in a relationship with our self and with another is a deeper soul bond. This raises our vibrations to attract more of what we want in life. You must realize though, not all vulnerable moments will seem to go in the way you want but you will always be rewarded with more intimacy with self. If you realize this fact as you take risk, the results will always be aligning. Even when its not a pretty truth, you will benefit by bringing it to light.
It is important that you are not attached to a certain outcome to manifest because you expressed your true feelings or it may revert you into a deeper form of protective egoism through rejection. Remember, rejection is simply redirection. In being vulnerable, you also offer another an opportunity to come out of self bondage a little more.
The bottom line is that being courageous by taking a chance on expressing how you truly feel in a situation, will bring clarity into life in the moment you are in.
We can all benefit greatly from coming out of ego construct which focuses on self preservation instead of self evaluation. None of us will ever be perfect and we may stumble through expressing our feelings. The most important thing is that we make effort to express what we truly feel and walk through the fear. As we become more in tune and more confident in expressing what we are feeling, we will become clearer and clearer leading us to make more aligned decisions.
Our experiences create imprints that we echo out through our expression in life until we bring it to light through self evaluation. Expressing vulnerably and seizing the moment when something arises is key. Please join me in evolving our self and society from the egoistic madness it has become and steer it to a vulnerable, authentic, more loving and harmonious society not operating through fear.
May you be Happy, May you find your Authenticity, May you find your Courage and Become Vulnerable enough for Self Discovery. May you be Free.